"To you who are parents, I say, show love to your children. You know you love them but make certain they know it as well. They are so precious. Let them know. Call upon Heavenly Father for help as you care for their needs each day as you deal with challenges that inevitably come with parenthood. You need more than your wisdom in rearing them." -President Thomas S. Monson There are several ways in which parents can, and do, respond to challenging situations with their children. How can we determine the best ways in which to approach parenting challenges and opportunities? Michael Popkins an author wrote a book called active parenting. In this book, parents learn how to be active in their children’s lives. Instead of reacting to what a child does maybe, we should be looking all along what might be the child's needs. The purposes of parenting are to protect and prepare a child to survive and thrive in the world they are going to live in. We should not focus on how to...

  Ephesians 4:29 “Let no corrupt communication proceed out of your mouth but that which is good to the use of edifying, that it may minister grace unto the hearers.” Ephesians 4:26 “Be ye angry, and sin not: do not let the sun go down upon your wrath.” Ephesians 6:12 “For we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against rulers of the darkness of this world.” I mentioned these above three verses regarding the topic we discussed last week about communication. I feel these three scriptures will help us to communicate better and know that when we fight with our wives, we are fighting against the devil he is the one whom we should conquer and not our wives. When it comes to marriage and family it is not enough to communicate clearly and be understood but it should be so enough you communicate clearly you cannot be misunderstood. When we communicate in our family there are three worlds that we will settle in 1. Celestial world- brings people closer together after discussion...

 Communication is a lot more difficult than people think. This week I will discuss how and why it's different and then put emphasis on what we can do to improve our communications in marriage. In marriage, we are going to influence each other. Some of us are not ready to be influenced by our spouses, yet we want to influence the other. When we struggle to communicate, we are not trying hard to do so. It takes some real effort. People think that when they get married, they become masters of communication. That is not true because when something gets too easy for you, you tend to put less effort into it, and then when we do not put effort our communication skills drop. When you want to communicate with someone, you have some belief that whatever we say, convey a thought or feeling to a human being we assume that it is as clear as day, and they understand it. Problems of communication We are often encoding messages though we are not thinking that the second person must decode it or el...

Stress is important for the body, the bones dissolve and rebuild because of stress. Some levels of stress can be healthy, too much of it is not good either. Healthy stress helps you to remember things and achieve things because your brain is more focused when under stress. When we are children, we love learning and like to discover new things but when we start junior high, we start to avoid learning. We start to want to do things as easily as we possibly can. Because learning is hard and takes effort, we start to shun it. We tend to think to avoid learning or doing hard things because it brings about stress. When you learn you are growing and because of that you start feeling good. It is in our natural self to desire to grow and when we achieve that growth, we become happy. A study has shown that the learning curve of a human being flattens from ages 18-35. We stop learning because we are trying to avoid any kind of stress because we think being stressed is bad. In my life, I have real...